Friday, August 12, 2011

What is my ex doing with me?

You guys may be meant for each other. There are obviously still feelings between you two. If you really love her take your time to feel her out. But be careful not to wait in vain. If she seems to be stringing you along don't make the mistake if being delusional and making excuses for her being distant or dating other people. You don't want to miss out on a potential woman who does want you while ur waiting around for your ex :/.

During World War 1 over 16 million people were killed?

I am aware of one work of Christian charity associated with the war. There were square-shaped extra nasty bullets that the British were allowed to use only when fighting Turks. Christians got moral and merciful round bullets. Not sure why the guy above me thinks Europe isn't Christian, the bullets prove it.

Can someone tell me the best person to contact at Sky TV with regards to appalling after sales service, being?

I need to contact someone "high up" at Sky TV as I keep getting pushed from one dept. to another, all of whom seem to give different and conflicting information. Service is appalling so I need to get a hold of someone at the top in order to bring things to a halt.

Why do i get turned on by guys in underwear?

im 15 and i always stare at guys when their in their undies or wearing speedos. is this normal? do u guys do it?

Is this the last straw, or am I overreacting?

I'm gonna give you a good piece of advice. Look at this mans attitude to his mother. If it is in anyway disrespectful, this is what you can expect later in life. If on the other hand he has a loving and kind relationship, this too is what you can expect. Good luck.

What should i do............................…

he is holding you back! leave him and try and sort your life out, you're still young. i hope things change for you

I really need help with syncing to my iPod- songs full of static, AAC versions just don't sync?

I downloaded some songs from iTunes a couple of days ago and then synced them to my iPod (which is manually synced due to my songs being split between computer accounts- long story ^^). The songs themselves synced, but they're full of static or just silence. One in particular you can hardly hear- once the song starts playing, it just becomes quieter and quieter, interspersed with plenty of static. The other songs on my iPod are absolutely fine, it doesn't appear to be a problem with the iPod or the computer. I've tried making AAC format versions of these songs (which are absolutely fine on iTunes, just suddenly damaged on my iPod) but they won't sync- I drag them over to my iPod's icon and nothing happens. It worked before with a song that was just silent. I really need some help, I am so frustrated! Thanks in advance for any answers.

Do you care how many "protesters" get killed in any muslim country?

Aren't these the same wastes of space who dance when we die?...watching the liberal media,it seems i am supposed to be appalled,but i am not...the more, the merrier,says I...

Do girls like guys in speedos, board shorts, or their birthday suits when swimming?

Because speedos feel good on my parts, but board shorts give me a breeze, and my birthday suit makes me feel loose, and yummy. Please don't put this on unfriendable, I just wanna be hot to the women.

Is he being an insensitive uncaring jerk?

He doesn't really love you. A person that loves you would always be affected of how you're feeling or what is going on in your life. Tell him to be more supportive and that you're going through a tough time in your life at the moment. Don't let your kids see him yet until he is more supportive.

Do spanish,french and italian teenagers where speedos to the beach/pool?

I live in Miami, Florida, I live on the beach. Weird question but NO. No teenager is wearing a speedo, unless they are in the swim team and such. It's actually VERY unusual to see a teenager in a speedo.

So i'm currently in a Landlord /Tenant suit with me being the Tenant that is very close to a settlement as we?

If you have a court date then you are not close to a settlement, you are going to fight it out in front of a judge. Call your lawyer and have the neighbors interviewed and sign statements asap. If you don't have a lawyer then get you one cause you are gonna need one.

Having a small get-together... Need a playlist of songs for ambiance?

I'm having a group of friends over for lunch. What are some songs I can play in the background so there isn't silence, but that isn't really distracting during conversation. Thanks! :o)

Ladies' opinions on speedos?

My female friend bought me a speedo for my birthday (as sort of a joke), and she badgered & badgered me to wear it to the beach. I finally caved in, wore it, and I can't tell you how many women looked and/or stared right at it. I also can't tell you how many women giggled or whispered to their girlfriends. What's the deal with women's responses to speedos? Do you secretly like them? If not, what's so funny about them? Aren't women's bikini bottoms the same idea?

How many guys wear Speedos?

Yes, I hate board shorts. Stupid bags is what they are. I too don't wear the speedo but I wear the European style bikini which fit and look much better. They don't squeeze things and don't look so tight around that area. Much more comfortable. My GF says I look very sexy (I have a very muscular upper body) in them and her opinion is the only one I care about anyways. She is the one that bought them for me. Now that I got use to feeling good wearing the bikini I love it. I get attention when I wear it at the beach (mostly) and the pool (sometimes). The only time you will get a negative comment is from the odd guy. It is always a young guy in a group with others. Never do they say anything when they are by themselves. It is there problem because they don't have the body or the guts to wear one.

One minute he's flirting like crazy the next I'm being ignored...?

I like this guy and well..on occasion I think he likes me back but I can never tell. One minute he is flirting with me like crazy the next I am being ignored so he can play xbox. Legit, I will be on skype with him and end up sitting in silence because he is playing xbox. I don't get it. I have no idea what to think about my situation anymore because I can't tell if he likes me or not because he is so... inconsistent I guess you can say? Does he like me or not?

How do you make conversation with a guy you JUST met?

So I was at a relatives birthday party and I ended up playing a game of horse with this very good looking italian guy. It was just me and him shooting baskets. Unfortunatly, it seemed like neither of us was really too good at making conversation, as their was quite a bit of silence. I'm just wondedring, for future reference, what are good things to say as a girl who is with a guy she just met?

Should i silence him & break them up?

my mum nd dad well luv each ova nd all dat but lyk 15 yrs ago my dad aprentle had an affair and ma mum waz lyk propa distraut but she tuk him bak coz she loves him but my auntey says she is stil wel paranoid abt him talkin 2 ova women nd dat if he cheats agen it iz ova, she also sed dat ma dad is wel sensitive wen it cums to ma mum and only speaks to women in da fam and wont even speak 2 my aunty dat much. so da ova day my dad has a massiv go at me coz he found weed growin in ma room wen he searched it wile i was clubbin nd he said he gona fink abt weva hes gonna tel ma mu coz he said she dusnt need da stress after havin major surgery. so now i fink he myte tell ma mum, so shuld i say dat he slept wit my aunty and i saw , so dat my mum will neva speak 2 him agen nd den he wont be able 2 tell her?

Is this bathing suit hot, or not?

I don't really like it. But you won't be mocked especially in California, it will be fine especially if you have a nice body ;)

What legal actions can i take if five people gang up on me and threaten to beat me up?

well we had to kick our two room mates out about three or four days ago because the cops raided our apartment because of them, then the next day they came into our house and broke out our kitchen window and vandalized our kitchen while me and my boyfriend were gone. The day after that we received a phone call and they said it was an accident but u can obviously tell it was no accident, later that night they came into our house with out permission and i was the only one there they were standing in my kitchen and one of them had a golf club and they didn't realize i was standing behind them and it looked like they were gonna vandalize our kitchen even more, by the way there was two girls and three guys against just me and i only weigh 98 pounds so I'm pretty small, so i got there attention and said they had to leave, i said that my boyfriend doesn't want them to be there with out him being there and my manager already said that there not allowed on the property for busting out our window. They refused to leave so i was appalled that they are not following our wishes after they did that to our kitchen and the kid with the golf club was holding it like he was readying to use it and i said to him, what are u gonna do hit me with the golf club. so I got the manager. She had ended up goin back into her apartment to get something and the guy with the golf club had ended up putting it down and then they were all standing around me in a kind of half circle and the kid that had the golf club started calling me names that was so startling to me i had to defend my self so i yelled back at him ( i haven't threatened anyone at all the whole time) so he decided to say point blank in my face that he was gonna beat my *** into the ground, he said hes not afraid to beat me up, naturally i feared for my life so i grabbed a knife and said nobody is gonna lay a hand on me and stabbed the knife into my coffee table. Now another guy along with the kid who was yelling in my face threatening me, joined in and started threatening me too. I was so freaking scared i felt like i was gonna pass out. This is one of the moments that really made me mad in this whole messed up situation. Well they started yelling that i got a knife and that i was threatening them and as that happen my manager came back in and that kid kicked my hand along with the knife and the knife smashed into our coffee table, i had just lost my only weapon to defend my self, i really feared for my life, i thought then and there they were gonna just pounce on me. I hurried up and said i was gonna call the cops but they surrounded me and i was so scared i couldn't even move. Instead of me calling the cops my ex room mate called first, in between the cops getting there, they harassed me the whole time and i tried my best to stand my ground and i refused to be treated that way in my own house, but when the cops got there they didn't do anything, they just said that they had a right to grab there belongings out of my house and i told the cops that they busted out our window and i didn't want them to leave with all there stuff and not pay a cent on anything that they broke or owed us for our rent and other bills that they helped build up, and yet again i was just appalled that the cops let them treat me that way and did nothing about it, the cops barely stayed around and once they left it was on again, they were out side ready to take the first load of there stuff to where ever they live and was trying to get me to come out there and fight while there was 5 people out there, i said yeah right I'm not gonna walk into that trap. O and by the way they weren't on our lease either. Then the girl room mates mother ( she was huge and her son aka the kid that had the golf club was running towards me so i grabbed a stick and my manager came out and the fat lady's son was in front of her and he came at me and grabbed the stick and shoved me backwards and I told him not to touch me so i pushed back, then some more arguing went on then they left, they were coming back for more later so i hurried and called up friends and family to come and help me and when they got back they looked surprised that i had people there to defend me and they wouldn't say a word to me cause now it was evenly matched this time and also they brought two more people with them so if i didn't get help it would of been 7 against just me. Please i need justice, i need to know if there is anything i can do legally.

Are speedos really that bad?

So, I have worn boardshorts since high school. Recently I started wearing speedos to the gym pool for lap swimming and I LOVE them! I was thinking of switching to them for my regular swimwear. But, all I hear from other people is negativity about them. Are they really that bad? If I were to switch to speedos would it really be that bad?

Black Ops...........................…

nah sorry to burst the bubble its alot of rubbish. im only level 34 but from the last cod games it acheived nothing. best sticking to your top level and not going prestige

Tips on becoming more social and easier to converse with?

It's cool just be relaxed a bit and here me out. This will be easy for you because the person you are seeing is a friend. When you have a genuine love or care for a person the conversation is easier because you don't have to worry about "walking on egg shell". That expression means you don't have to worry about how you say things because of fear of offending the other person. The only thing that makes a conversation quick is "yes" and "no". When you talk and ask things like (how are you doing? How are the family or friends? How was the trip? What's been going on lately?) There questions usually require mare than a yes or no. Some response with i'm fine (and might add more) but i'm hungry or don't feel good...which can then lead to you asking...what do you want to eat or what's hurting? What this is...is a conversation cause and effect. But most importantly it's from listening. Listening to what the other person was to say and responding to it. when you have a conversation you just speak naturally what comes to your mind about a subject but if there is something you say that can't be understood you would nee to explain why you say it...like (this just happened to me)...I work in a condo and met a new resident and in the conversation I asked "Are you going to school?" He said no he was working. But I'm not going to assume that he knew why I asked him that so I explained. "We have a lot of college students that move in to the building to go to law school near by. So in a conversation and you wan to ask or make a statement and it's not unclear why you are asking or making the statement then it's good to explain why "briefly" though. I hoped this helped. When you care just ask normal questions since the general ones are already done...who already know names and etc...but what's work like and life where you are know and other things...then listen to what they say and ask or comment about what the other person said. This can lead to whatever...and then when questions are asked to you answer them or sometimes ask why the persona asked that question...so on and so on...you getthe picture...I hope this has helped...

How is my poem? how can I improve?

Yeah, decide whether you want it to rhyme or not and then decide one style or the other. Doesn't quite work with both in my opinion (it's still not bad though) It's a wee bit hippy for my taste too. Boomshanka.

How can i feel more comfortable with my dad?

find something you guys have in common. have a few beers before you guys hangout it'll ease you out.. lol seriously though

Poem. what do you think? brutal honesty is welcome. =)?

could be interesting, but you should polish it a bit more. I do like it. Maybe edit out some bits? right now its probably an 80%. I am an amateur poet.

Senior Skip Day Questions? Please?

Does it count as an absent? I have perfect attendance and I do not want it on my record. Please answer? I'm just appalled at the idea of not going to school. It should not be a day, in my opinion. I would like to know because I would truly like to skip school with the rest of my fellow peers. I also would not like to skip school because I honestly would rather keep my perfect attendance record. I was wondering if you could answer my question. Does senior skip day count as an absent on your record?

Should i get jammers for swimming on my holiday?

i'm going on holiday to turkey in august and i need some new swimwear. i'm 14 and i don't really want trunks anymore because i don't find them comfortable and i don't want speedos because i find them too revealing. should i buy a pair of jammers?

Help I have feelings for another guy for the first time what should I do? ?

Ok so I'm a 14 year old boy and I have always only liked girl. Until about a mouth ago. This new kid moved on my street. He's my age, a little bit taller, dark hair, works out, and has an amazing smile. So thing about the way he looks couldn't make me keep my eyes off off him. So I got to know him and he is pretty much awesome at everything from sports to video games, and we share a lot of things in common. We've spent every minute together for the past few weeks and it was amazing. Than a few days ago we were watch this horrible movie on Netflix just to make fun Of it and it was hilarious. The end of the movie was so bad we could stop laughing we just went on laughing and laughing for at least five minutes. Then there Was a moment of silence and right before I was about to say something he kissed me. I was shocked and yet I wasn't as grossed out as I thought I was going to be. In fact it felt weird and oddly enjoyable. Then he started to say he was sorry I kissed him back. I don't know why I guess I was still curious or something. Anyway when I was done kissing him he pretty much ran out the door. I haven't talked to him yet what should I do? I really like him but never even thought off being with a guy? For some reason I'm just fell comfortable being around him. I would love to just hang out with him at the least and I'm just not sure how. Please help

Got any tips for conversation starters and topic to talk about...?

How about asking how has they're day been and what the gossip is around there. I don't mean for this to sound like a high school but it might be interesting to you.

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Does he even care about me after all?

U gave me your advice on my problem. I'm going to do the same Hun. Silly fights like these can destroy relationships. This guy is a drama queen but if you care about him make it a point to work this out. Don't let it die away. There needs to be a close to this. Make sure it's a happy one. Sit him down face to face and tell him everything you wrote here. Every last bit. Print it out and read it to him if you have to. But this is what he needs to see. If he remains a drama queen and doesn't work this out with you then he's not worth the struggle Hun. I hope I helped. Thanks for your advice as well

Ladies' opinions on speedos?

My female friend bought me a speedo for my birthday (as sort of a joke), and she badgered & badgered me to wear it to the beach. I finally caved in, wore it, and I can't tell you how many women looked and/or stared right at it. I also can't tell you how many women giggled or whispered to their girlfriends. What's the deal with women's responses to speedos? Do you secretly like them? If not, what's so funny about them? Aren't women's bikini bottoms the same idea?

Is this normal for a boy?

im 14. i want to wear a speedo at the beach and the pool. im sorda muscular(180-190 pounds 6 ft.). so should i. how do i ask my mom to get me one. and another thing. will it effect my penis growth (does tight underwear-boxer briefs) do most boys @ 14 year speedos. what about underwear what type do most wear (boxers, boxer briefs, briefs.) thanks

I need advice from another mama!?

I just started babysitting a 13 month old and I was shocked when her mom told me that she only took 1 nap a day. Well this is my 3rd day watching her. She falls asleep in the high chair during lunch. I think that is a sign of being too exhausted. Today I put her in my room in the play pin so that my 10 month old could take her nap and there would be silence as she was trying to go to sleep. 10 minutes later I walk in and the little girl im watching is sleeping. Should I give her 2 naps a day and tell the mom my reasoning or should I just continue to give her one nap a day? The mom works 60 hours a week and isnt really around her daughter that much. When I asked during the interview she couldnt even tell me her daughters schedule. The only thing she knew was 1 nap a day.

Changing from Sky to Virgin whilst still in a contract - How?

It can depend on your router speed. Check this out first before changing. I've had sky for ages and the service is excellent. The router I have is 100Mbps and my internet connection runs at this speed.

Does "Coming Out" About Abuse You Suffered Help or Hurt The Situation?

I think might be labled as the person who got abused by family members or simply the problem child/adult...tell someone you really trust, that won't judge or take two steps away from you. Be careful. :)

Is this swimsuit dress code too harsh?

Hell no it's not too harsh. They are at a camp. There is no need for them to try to look sexy there. I'd also add if you wore a bikini a very baggy tee shirt will be given to you to wear over it.

Suicide silence, 10 points?

Is there a way to get before the July 12 called "the black crow" of suicide silence? Also, what is their last work issued? ps. will do concerts in Italy soon? when and where? 10 points!

Why is this bugging me?

No professional modeling agency would respond like this. I am so sorry about your experience. I have time when I feel on top of the world beautiful and other times I feel like an ugly duckling with a gap tooth. I model, however, and real agencies don't even look for pretty. They look for endearing, different, charming features. So really, this "agency" has no idea what they are doing. I'm apologize again for their lack of professionalism.

How hot is too hot to ride?

Maybe I'm over reacting, but I'm slightly disgusted right now. Today we hit a record temperature of 100 with moderate humidity-like 40%. Maybe that's not hot to some of you, but I live in western WI where temperatures now should be in the upper 70's/low 80's now. When we get to 90 it's horrible...so you get the point. Anyway, I went to the barn to hose off my horse's legs and put fly spray on. I feel so bad he even has to be outside in this weather....then I find out, the barn I work at had lessons today. My friend lessons/sorta works there, and she said she rode two horses and 5 others rode, along with one of the trainers and the lesson kids. There were a lot of horses ridden today. Honestly I was appalled. I felt bad just walking my horse up from the pasture. Am I over-reacting? Do you ride when it's this hot? Do you have a set temperature, where you won't ride if it's hotter than that?

Wouldn't you consider this rude?? I feel so embarrassed?

My girlfriend invited me over to her house tonight to have dinner with his dad. So it was all good and all except her dad was acting a bit arrogant and haughty. Anyway, we were eating dinner and the Father in the middle of our dinner said that he needed to talk to me before I went home. My gf looked embarrassed when her dad said that. So after we finish our dinner I go into the living room and her dad started giving me tips about how to eat properly. He criticized the fact that I had my elbows on the table, didn't chew properly, didn't set the fork and spoon correctly, and pushed my meal away after I was finished. He said if I wanted to be his daughter's boyfriend then I needed to have better table manners and etiquette. I was so appalled by him that I just said thank you for the tips and goodnight. My girlfriend did say sorry as I was leaving the door but I said don't worry about it.

Should men wear speedos?

I am 17 years old and have a good build at the top but not do good build lower body. I currently swim 10 hours a week and jammers feel like they give too much restriction. Should I wear speedos? Will they suit me? Also by wearing a cap and ear plugs is this the best way to stop any water getting in the ear? Thanks.

Why do i get a hard on in speedos but not briefs?

Briefs are more of a private thing that not many people get to see since it isnt appropriate to wear them in public. Speedos are meant to be worn in front of people and for that reason you may get more turned on by that thought. That is at least the reason I would get hard in Speedos.

Continue wearing Speedos?

If you feel good in them continue to wear them, it doesn't matter what other people think as long as you feel good

What can I do about my gay brother?

I can understand you being hurt about all of this. Your brother should have told his wife how he was feeling before deciding to leave, much less before having a relationship with another man. But you need to understand that this is between your brother and his wife. There really isn't anything you can do for him. If you can find it in your heart to forgive him, then approach him later and tell him how you feel about all of this. But otherwise, I would suggest you stay out of it. You'll only create unnecessary complications by interfering.

Is This Gay? (Please Help! 5 Points)?

I am a 16 year old boy wrestling fan and i Love the WWE! I always fantasize about the divas and would love to date them and i always get turned on by them. BUT...at the same time i get turned on by some of the male wrestlers like Randy Orton & Mason Ryan, when i stare at their butts and dream of spanking them with their speedos on. I get turned on by the divas more but i still get turned on about just as much with the guys and i dont mind, but am i bisexual ?

I am an expat working in an English company and the girls are being EVIL with me?

you can handle this two different ways. If you are comfortable doing so, I may confront those who are not treating you with proper respect and ask them what the problem is. If that does not work, you should go speak to your supervisor AND the head of your human resources department and let them know what is happening and how it is affecting you. I wish you the best of luck!

If God gave us the knowledge of right and wrong, and without him there's no right and wrong, how come...?

...then how come I'm appalled by the actions he signed off on in the old testament? Why am I appalled by his 'prophets', including Jesus who said he had come to fulfill old testament laws.

To express/to activate/turn on a gene: do they mean the same thing?

according to my AP bio book, genes need to be triggered to be expressed so i guess you could say they are initially all "silent" but it seems like the three you named "to expressto activate, and to turn on a gene" all mean the same thing. my book almost uses them interchangably

What are these dreams called?

So, when I was 11 I had these dreams for about a month straight, every night to the point where I wouldn't sleep for days because I was so scared of them. There's really no way to explain them, but... OK, so when I fall asleep, I heard a strange noise, like complete silence but with sort of nails against chalkboard, like my ears are going to burst. Then, I open my eyes in the dream, and I'm usually laying excactly where I fell asleep. Sometime's I'll see a scary tall shadow standing at the foot of my bed, and sometimes I'll see nothing but feel like someone going to pop out and stab me. ._. I can't move in these dreams, not at all. I've tried moving, but it hurts and it's pretty much impossible. My parents tell me I talk in these dreams and make moaning noises, and I always wake up with my heart racing and one time I woke up and couldn't breathe and almost had to be rushed to the E.R. In these dreams, I feel like I can barely breath. I try to breath regular, but I can't. It's so hard. I try to just close my eyes and drift into another sleep in these dreams, but the irritating noise and odd feeling in the atmosphere in the dream always deter me. I'm 13 and I'm starting to get these dreams again. I can wake up voluntarily from these dreams by squeezing my eyes as tight as I can in the dream and then opening them. When I was 11, I remember reading something about these dreams, a wife writing about her husband always having the same types of dreams I'm having. He couldn't move in the dream, he was scared in the dream, and he woke up with a fast heart and sometimes couldn't breath. These dreams are extremely scary... you can't feel what I'm talking about unless you have one. It's one of the scariest things ever. It feels like your a tiny rabbit with starving wolves behind every tree while you're in a forest. I'm so scared of them, but I try to think of other things before I fall into sleep but they always pop up. I have always had the weirdest dreams, but these are just plain odd and scary. Help?

Am I gay or Bi or something?

I am 19 in college and I like to think of myself as straight but sometimes when I watch porn I look at the dick and want to have sex with them. Sometimes when I have sex with girls I think of guys. I kinda want a guy to ************ so bad but I don't want any one to know. Also me and my best friend who is straight we kinda hit on eachother as a joke. we run around in speedos and stuff but I kinda want to have sex with him for reals. There is times I feel like I want to play with cock alot more then vagina. what do I do?

What does it mean when a girl does this..?

She sounds like she didn't want to be there hence the constant texting and speedy exit. That's all I think it seems like....

Penis keeps moving in speedo!? (Help)?

I don't think there is much you can do about. When you move, your penis will to. Try not to think about it, eventually it will not bother you anymore. Its just natural movement, nobody is looking to see where its at, anyhow.

What do you think of this piece of writing?

I love this writing and if I wrote this book I would out it out immediately! I know this is only a little part but I would explain how he got there and even who "he" is. I love this though and I think you would be a great writer. That's my opinion.

Did I experience a migraine headache?

Yes, that was definantly a migraine. I get them and are followed by doctors. I went what you went through so they put me on a daily medication called Kepra. I'm on 3000 mg a day and get about 1-2 headaches month now! They are difinantly heridiery. My dad gets them and so does my cousin who is actually my age. They can also reoccure. If it does within 24 hours of it going away, its the same headache. I find that alleve or motrin work well along with lots of water or gatorade-gatorade for the electrolytes. (Which helps headaches) also sodium -chips pretzels saltines- can help. These headaches aren't fun, but atleasy 90 percent of americas popultaion get atleast one once. Feel better! Keep me posted!

Sexy or not sexy....?

I'm a 19 year old male, with an atheltic build. I'm 6 foot 3, have blue eyes, and shoulder length, straight brown hair. I like to go running and swimming, but I want to know if you would think I'm sexy if I were speedos, jammers, and compression shorts/pants with a t-shirt?

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Which album should i get?

Okay well i cant decide what album to get its between these....Suicide Silence's upcoming album "The Black Crown" or Born Of Osiris's album "The Discovery"..... Any opinions?

Read, comment, and criticize my poem, Thanks?

I read this a couple of times trying to find some redeeming value. It has a message, but it is poorly delivered in the midst of cliches. The only poetic device I could really identify was repetition, and that is ineffective. Your verses lack depth and emotion. There is no imagery, there is nothing that really sparks any interest... Honestly, I would struggle to call this a poem.

What to talk to this guy about?

basically i met this guy on a site called tagged about 2 weeks ago and we have been talking every night since (hes sooooo cute) he is the same age as me and i know he is because we have been on video chat to each other several times. So we have arranged to meet up on Saturday and i was just wondering if anyone could give me a list of things that we could talk about, or conversation starters so that we are not just sat there in awkward silence for a few hours.

I'm VERY shy. Even the simplest conversations drain my energy. How do I deal with this?

Be easy on yourself, take baby steps and look at each day in class as a challenge u can overcome. U will find friends like u, there are alot of shy people in the world

Women's opinions on speedos?

My female friend bought me a speedo for my birthday (as sort of a joke), and she badgered & badgered me to wear it to the beach. I finally caved in, wore it, and I can't tell you how many women looked and/or stared right at it. I also can't tell you how many women giggled or whispered to their girlfriends. What's the deal with women's responses to speedos? Do you secretly like them? If not, what's so funny about them? Aren't women's bikini bottoms the same idea?

Im afraid of it looking small...?

I have swimming in gym class today and all I have clean is these stupid speedos and you can like see it in them. I could wear my swim suit but its dirty and smells musky. Idk what to do... pls help. I'm in middle school and I'm emberrised of its size.

What is the stigma wIth Speedos?

I personally feel that if you want to wear a speedo and you have a great body, go for it. But if you're 56 and overweight, maybe it's not that good of a idea. Speedos also don't leave much to the imagination.

Gender Studies, where can I get a dog like this one?

Every dog I've owned doesn't really care that much for men. I've never had, rather allowed, a dog to be aggressive to anyone. They always stop when I tell them to stop. Little dogs tend to be more of a "one man" dog, so socializing them with as many people as possible is much better for them.

Is it just me or is men's and women's swim wear a little one sided?

I'm 16 good shape not fat could be a little more muscular . I decided to wear speedos to the pool at my nearby rec center on account that almost no swim shorts will stay up with shitty drawstrings. Damn did I ever get jeered half the people there. on the way out a few other guys made a few remarks that just got under my skin. So, Meanwhile girls even slightly out of shape ones are being praised for the more revealing swim clothes they wear, not that theres anything wrong that. Just seems a little one-sided to me though. Should I say **** them and keep wearing them? They make it really easy to swim.

What do you think of Speedos?

Speedos are for losers who feel insecure. They either wear them to make themselves look bigger or they have a severe need for attention.

Why can't people accept more minorities are on Welfare?

If your white boss were hiring more blacks and latinos, perhaps fewer of them would have to be on Welfare. But, Black men are put in prison for taking drugs when they're 18... White men are ignored, because their drugs are done at Frat parties. When the Black man gets out of jail, to survive he had to become a hardened criminal.

What would you do if the girl you like would never like you back?

Move along. I do feel bad for you having to see the girl you love and would die for be taken by another guy. Same sort of thing happened to me. Keep your friendship going and support her. If they've already broken up once, this can't last too long.

How can i talk to my crush without having awkward silence?

im hanging out with this girl i like in a few days she wants to teach me dance moves(she does'nt know i like her) whenever we hang theirs always awkward silence...im thinking of asking her out but i can't if i act this way. any tips hints advice ANYTHING? need help ASAP i want to be ready and know what to say before we hang.

A question concerning the Israel section?

Seems like you are in somebody's head already, he has multiple accounts i guess because having many of your answers deleted in a few days means that this person is looking for your answers.

Will you read my poem (Impetus) maybe?

Hi. This poem is great but I think you could paraphrase some lines to avoid commas. Well, there are so many commas in this poem and this can harm your poem my friend. but totally this is a great poem. Well done.

Why can't Cena wear speedos like everyone else?

When he first came to WWE he did but they were kinda like really tight short short but to him they were just too uncomfortable and he didn't want people to look at his crotch.

Is there more homophobia in the U.S. than in Europe?

Europeans are more accepting and open minded when it comes to this kind of stuff. They're more "modern"

Found Out I have a 4 year old daughter?

Right now Im 25 and a few years ago I was, to say the least, out of control. I was into drugs and I had a lot of flings with different women. In the last 3 years Ive been completely clean and I got my life back in order. However a few months ago one of my exes showed up at my place. She had a little 4 year old girl and she said she was mine. I could tell that she was still pretty messed up and I didn’t believe her that the kid was mine, but at the same time I felt really bad for the little girl and tried to get her and her mom to come inside. I was going to call the police because the little girl didn’t look like she was being taken care of and her mom was definitely on something when she showed up. I went to go get the little girl some water and when I came back the mom was gone and she had left her little girl. I called the police but I went to the police station with the little girl because they wanted to take my statement . I asked about the girl and started to wonder if she really was mine. We took a dna test and it turned out she’s my daughter. I feel so guilty that I didn’t know about this sooner. Her name is Maya and she’s so sweet even though she’s been through a lot of bad things. I recently won custody of her and now she lives with me. I tried to get her mom help but shes disappeared and no one has heard from her in months. Even though Maya is sweat and I love her very much I can tell that she’s very scared by all of this. She seems to trust me but she’s very nervous around people. She has scars on her back and im so appalled that no one took her away from her mother sooner and that no one realized that she was being abused. At the same fault I know that its my fault she was even in that situation to begin with and I hate myself for that. I want her to feel comfortable and happy and she is at times but she just gets so scared so easily. What can I do to help her adjust to all that is happening easier?

Is it ok to wear a speedo at Disney water parks?

My wife and I are taking our kids to Disney World next month. My son is 10 and my daughter is 8. We have yet to take them to a water park yet. My question is, will it be ok for my son and I to wear speedo type suits to the water park? Living in NY we often take the kids to coney island or brighton beach throughout the summer and we always wear them there since there are a lot of Europeans who live in that part of the city. We also own a vacation home in the Dominican Republic which we visit 2-3 times per year. There are always numerous guys wearing speedos there. I remember growing up in the 70's and 80's I used to wear a speedo to the water park and there were always several guys doing the same. Seeing that Orlando is an international tourist spot am I safe to assume speedos will be fine? I'm not out of shape or self conscious I just want to make sure I will not be the only man not in trunks. I don't even own a pair of trunks. thanks for your help.

Help with my censorship paper?

I had to read it 3 or 4 times to catch the connection between para.s 2 and 3. I was thinking, "The inverse of WHAT has to be correct?" You end 2 with a rather negative view on censorship, then you begin 3 with a negative view on censorship and say it's the opposite. Granted, they ARE opposites, but worded roughly. It IS a pretty intriguing story.

Can't edit basic information?

I've been attempting to change my basic information on my profile. Facebook has screwed up on this for the last several hours to my understanding. Hopefully, it's only something that'll get fixed morning come.

5 year old pees on himself on purpose and throws tantrums. I'm so frustrated?

My son is 5 years old. He has been potty trained for almost 2 years. About 3 months ago he wet the bed. I felt horrible for him, told him it would be okay, changed him and sent him back to bed. Well, he has wet the bed about 90% of the time since then but, only at bedtime. Plus he never wets the bed at the sitters, my brothers, his mothers... anywhere but at home. He goes to the restroom before bed. Most times he only urinates a tiny bit in his pants but, it's enough for him to tell me "daddy, I peed my pants". The first month or so I was very compassionate and understanding. The next month I didn't say a word to him when it happened, just changed him and sent him back to bed. Recently I have started making him stand in the corner for a few minutes and then change him. I make him help me clean the mess almost every time. I've tried positive reinforcement, encouragement, silence, punishment... everything I can think of but, he continues to wet the bed. Everything I'm reading online says that very rarely will a child wet himself on purpose but, I'm 99% confident that this is the case. I don't know if he's trying to get attention, if he's trying to test me, if he sees it as an excuse to not go to sleep... I just don't know. Most times it seems like a game to him... he'll have a smile on his face when he tells me he wet himself. I've even went to the extent of threatening to put him back in a diaper at bedtime. He laughs at me Usually, when I threaten something I intend on backing it up but, I just couldn't bring myself to put him back in a diaper. He was crying and I felt like it wasn't the right thing to do. I'm at a loss and hope ya'll have some good advice for me. Thanks for your time, much appreciated.

Conversation starters?? HELP!?

My boyfriend said I never start a top when we are talking and things go silence. So please can you guys give me random/funny things to say that will give us something interesting and maybe funny to talk about. Thanks so much!! x

Are these swim trunks hot, or not?

i think that they're ok if you're in a pool swimming for exercise/competitively, but on a beach, no. you should go for ones that are mid-thigh and baggier

Have you ever felt like the very universe wanted you gone?

No. The universe doesn't care about us as individuals. Only humans care. It is also illogical to believe in a god of intention and no action. If one is to believe in god and the supreme power of god, one must inevitably accept things as they are as being all part of the plan. If god wanted things to be different, they would be different. Otherwise god is not all-powerful, doesn't care, or simply doesn't exist.

What do women think when a guy arouses himself so that he appears larger in his speedos?

I remember watching dodgeball with a female friend a while ago and there was a scene where ben stiller had an inflatable crotch to try and impress a girl and my friend she seemed to really laugh loud and a hot flush came over her so what do women think about guys who appear large or try to make themself large.

Read/Critique my Personal Statement?

Amazing, feelings full. Beautifully written. I had to hunt roaches at my girlfriend appartment once and I loved her so much

My friends talking about my brother in inappropriate ways?

My little brother is a swimmer for his high school and me and my mom go to most of his meets. Its hard not to notice this, his team wears grey speedos and you can totally see their penises. On Friday, I brought two of my girlfriends to his meet. I thought it would be fun but the entire time they were commenting on my brother and his penis. They kept talking about how big it was and asking me what it looked like without the speedo. My mom thought it was funny but I got offended and mad at them like the whole rest of the night. I don't like thinking about my baby brother's penis and I certainly don't want my friends talking about it. Did I overreact? Why didn't my mom care?

Should men wear speedos?

Yes, I think speedos (swim briefs) are the only way to go. I use to be afraid to wear one, but then I got up the courage and I was upset that I didn't do it earlier. I have so much more movement and they are far more comfortable. Go for it!

Wouldn't you consider this rude?? I feel so embarrassed?

My girlfriend invited me over to her house tonight to have dinner with his dad. So it was all good and all except her dad was acting a bit arrogant and haughty. Anyway, we were eating dinner and the Father in the middle of our dinner said that he needed to talk to me before I went home. My gf looked embarrassed when her dad said that. So after we finish our dinner I go into the living room and her dad started giving me tips about how to eat properly. He criticized the fact that I had my elbows on the table, didn't chew properly, didn't set the fork and spoon correctly, and pushed my meal away after I was finished. He said if I wanted to be his daughter's boyfriend then I needed to have better table manners and etiquette. I was so appalled by him that I just said thank you for the tips and goodnight. My girlfriend did say sorry as I was leaving the door but I said don't worry about it.

I'm really getting nervous about my FSIL and the wedding.. any advice?

I really don't understand why she is in the wedding. I would never allow this. And if my fiance didn't back me up and say, yeah this behavior has gotten out of control, she shouldn't be in the wedding, well then we either wouldn't be having a wedding or we wouldn't be getting married at all. I guess I am just a low-drama, hassle free person who doesn't put up with this kind of bull crap. Look at all the energy you are wasting on this one person. Buying a book, having to ask friends and family to basically babysit her during your wedding. Really? Ridiculous. Just tell her she isn't a bridesmaid anymore and ignore her calls asking about wedding stuff. Really, too much time wasted on this, makes me think maybe the drama is a little bit, enticing? Otherwise why would you even put up with this???

Do you wear speedos when you do laps?

I've.been doing laps in the pool and they do work because I feel faster but I feel weird walking around in them.

Why don't schools serve water for lunch?

my school sells water with starbucks, smoothies, hot chocolate, and soda. so people usually dont get water since theres stuff like that...but you should complain about it! i know my friend never drank water and would just get sugary sodas and actually fainted so it is a serious problem

Why do you think it speedos are "gay" to Americans?

Because they show off a lot of skin, similar to female bikini. Also Its completely different then american society that sports bagy shirts and shorts and always covering their legs. but I don't think that speedos are really gay, just unusual, but they don't bother me much...

Why do so many people speak with overly simplistic english?

Is it just me, or is the english language being watered down by people who do not speak eloquently. It seems as if people do not explain themselves properly and simplify their language by using generic words instead of more descriptive words. So many people seem to talk with a 500 word vocabulary instead of a 30,000 word vocabulary. I am not saying that people should intentionally use big words, or make things overly complex however it is kind of appalling to see people talking in this overly simplistic non descriptive language that is used today. Do you think people are becoming less and less descriptive, or were they always like this? I am not saying we should all be english purists. I have nothing against slangs, but I am indeed bothered by people using words such as "mad" to describe angry, and disrespectfulness to describe their child's bad behavior. I also notice people tend not to use proper names for instance they will say "duck" instead of mallard or call something "gay" instead of saying not cool or uninteresting.

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Having a bit of jealousy trouble!?

I met this boy shortly before school ended, and we've become quite good friends. We talk nearly every day. Today, this other girl I know started chatting him up and he told me he thinks she's cute. And the most appalling thing happened. I got SO jealous! If I'm getting jealous every time a pretty girl talks to him, that's a sign right? Do I have a crush on him? I think I might. If I do, or even if I don't, what do I do about the envy?

Was breaking up with him the right thing to do?

exactly what you did hun. Every woman deserves to be loved and if she's not getting it then she's not happy. Do what makes you happy! Move onn.

Do guys in like underwear ads and speedos stuff their crotches to make it look bigger?

All the guys in underwear ads seem to have these huge bulges, but then when I wear them they look really flat and a bit baggy. Do they stuff to make it look bigger or do they take the pictures while they have an erection or something?

What would you do in this situation?

Ask for a gas mask. Caves can leak deadly gases. Once I knew I was safe from potential deadly fumes I would whip out cell phone and take pics of you. Your mother is the mayor of the town and you lead the youth group at the Baptist church. I threaten you with black male who has followed me to the cave.

Is this bathing suit hot, or not?

Well i think guy that is modeling the swim suit he is the only person who can pull that off if your body is like that then i think you should wear it but if its not than dont wear it sorry

I get depressed about how low my country has become..?

you think this is bad, don't travel to the US. the Us is really a mess. Progressives, liberals took over.the country is in decline.

When is sexism going to be viewed in both directions with equal consideration?

By posting a single question about Men's Rights and Father's Rights, I received nothing but a barrage of inexcusable, hate filled and misandrous (intersting that spell check doesn't even recognize this word) responses that were getting all these positive marks . . . It is absolutely appalling how much sexism and hate was coming from these supposed equality seeking "feminists."

Where do creationists get the gall to accuse evolutionists of being dishonest?

I think to a certain extent many atheist's hand's are tied by the need to be honest with themselves and others, many find it dishonest to make outrageous claims that we have not sought to validate within the boundaries of reality. That's why such outlandish claims are often made by creationists, claims with no reality or logic. Trying to address these untruths whilst staying within the boundaries of truth is nigh on impossible. Two sets of rules.

What to do now with this girl?

Since she invited you she probably thinks you stand out among the rest of her friends. Get to know her more, don't rush into asking her out she may not be comfortable with that. Also don't harass her with texts. Try to hangout with her more in person,invite her places, and at school. Once you think yourself and her are ready, you can tell her you like her and hope to be more than just friends! Good luck!

I need to send an MP3 clip to someone on Facebook, but it's impossible?

I should preface this by saying, my knowledge of all things technical is appalling. But I really need to send an Mp3 audio clip to someone and it seems like this is impossible. It is a professional obligation and this person is not on my friends list (if this makes a difference) But is there any way to convert the MP3 to a format that is able to be sent? My only access to them is through Facebook. Thank you so much for any advice.

What do you do when someone says "I love you" but you can't say it back?

I have a boyfriend and I just met this guy and we became friends. He knows I have a boyfriend but he still doesn't care and he'll say it during conversations and I don't know what to say back so there's an awkward silence. What can I say to not hurt him? (I love my boyfriend and I would never wanna romantically say I love you to someone else except him)

What do you think this means?

i think he wants more of a relationship where in you can be intimate and exclusive with each other. I dont get it that there is such thing as FWB bcoz guys only benefit from that..girls will not get any benefit from it aside from S.

Girls only: Should i tell my parents im gay?

I think you should let this deviant behavior go, and get some guidance on how to be a normal person. Your parents and society will be very disappointed if you continue with this subhuman lifestyle.

Is this his warning sign?

he is right to send that email... he was being honest, not mean and i agree with him. you will always have things come up in life and find excuses but most importantly make the people you are close to feel loved and special or just let them go.

Is this his warning sign?

Yes, I think it is a warning sign. And I have to agree with him, even though you are busy, you should take at least 10 minutes out of your day to give him a call - not a text or an email, but a phone call which is more personal. And will let him know that you are truly thinking of him, even though you don't have a lot of time to spend with him.

Should I wear a speedo in my backyard?

It seems like if anyone did see you they should be called a peeping Tom. Just do what you want and have fun, it's not illegal.

Spurned... thoughts, impressions?

I;ve felt like that--a spider, nerve gassed by insect spray, curling into a ball. yes, never give your heart. ever.

Is this his warning sign?

Oh yeah, thats his warning. You either need to change or he's gone and you know what? I don't blame him. You're not being fair and I wouldn't stick around either.

Does it offend atheists when I tell them I am doing everything in my power to educate Christian parents?

I can predict the answers of atheists: "I do not care". Because they only care for themselves, as long as they think it is right, and their right or wrong stem up from human theory which never constant, always change; instead of relying on God's commandments which is fixed, the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow.

Thumbs up or down for iPad 2?

My opinion: TOTAL RIP OFF! They came up with the idea for iPad 2 before they even launched the first iPad. The brains behind the Apple comapny are not stupid ones. A camera and slimmer design could've easily been discussed and placed on the original iPad. But to con more people they decided to produce the iPad 2 just a year later. Lurring people in saying "Hey we've just had an awesome idea! Its genius! Must buy NOW. Its groundbreaking stuff....a camera has been added. C'mon IDIOTS! Be our test tube babies and empy your pockets for our pointless upgrade" I'm not gonna buy the iPad 2. To see people sleeping on the streets to purchase one just breaks......... my silence. Gotta laugh!

Women's Opinions On Speedos?

My female friend bought me a speedo for my birthday (as sort of a joke), and she badgered & badgered me to wear it to the beach. I finally caved in, wore it, and I can't tell you how many women looked and/or stared right at it. I also can't tell you how many women giggled or whispered to their girlfriends. What's the deal with women's responses to speedos? Do you secretly like them? If not, what's so funny about them? Aren't women's bikini bottoms the same idea?

I don't know what my sexual orientation is...?

You are you. No orientation can define you. But considering you are interested in men and women romantically, you may be Panromantic.

Can someone please give me some feedback on the poem?

Wow. You are an amazing poet. I think I might just learn a few things from you. I can actually feel the bitterness and resentment in this poem. And it is emotion that makes a good poem after all. Great stuff!

My fitness is appalling, help please?

It's not good if it's that high for long amounts of time, but it's ok for a little bit of time. I would join an activity tho instead! Exercising by yourself is hard and boring. I would join a school sport cause you get friends and have fun while staying healthy! I would suggest colorguard because I love it and it's ammazing, but alot of schools don't have one, however I lost 50 pounds total in my 4 years of guard which doesn't seem like alot in the amount of time but I really hadn't tried the first three years an only lost 20 in those years and this year I lost about another 30 because I started eating healthier too! So just find an activity that will get you active and having fun! Good luck!!!

When is silence golden.............?

When the ministers asks "Whoever knows any reason why they should not be married speak now or forever hold your peace."

Shaving every day...?

I don't think your hair will grow back in one day right after shaving. Waxing may hurt but it lasts longer or you can try the razorless veet hair removal cream for women. It sure beats the razors.

Why is the USA so prudish compared to the UK?

Because about 300 years ago the UK shipped all their puritans to the other side of the world. Someplace called the Americas...

OK to go jogging in speedos?

ha i would rather see someone in short shorts instead of a speedo..after all, speedos are for swimming

Is my office tacky just because I have many pictures of myself?

At first I was gonna say yes because it is a little weird to have random shirtless and speedo pictures, but since they are accomplishments it's okay. Might make some people uncomfortable though.

Spurned... thoughts, impressions?

I;ve felt like that--a spider, nerve gassed by insect spray, curling into a ball. yes, never give your heart. ever.

Naming quints! Help me please!?

Avery Grace, Mia Rose, Ruby Anne. Cooper James, Miles Nathan, Nolan Zachary those are my favs good luck wow

Women's opinions on speedos?

My female friend bought me a speedo for my birthday (as sort of a joke), and she badgered & badgered me to wear it to the beach. I finally caved in, wore it, and I can't tell you how many women looked and/or stared right at it. I also can't tell you how many women giggled or whispered to their girlfriends. What's the deal with women's responses to speedos? Do you secretly like them? If not, what's so funny about them? Aren't women's bikini bottoms the same idea?

My opinion of relationships is skewed? Help?

It's possible given your parents relationship that you believe they'd have been better without it and so why would anyone else need it.

Can I use a Bora Clock instead of a Golf Speedo.?

My speedo/clock on a Golf 1.6 Petrol (1999) stopped working and I saw a Bora Sport Clock on eBay for 75 pounds. The only thing I'm worried about its that it may not work. The speedos look the same in terms of layout and stuff but the Part Number is different. Will it work if its not the same part number?

Rhh:what colors do these songs make you think of (mbdtf edition)?

Kanye, he's not really that good of a producer. I mean he definetely is a lot worst at sampling than I am, but then again not a lot compares to me so it's whatever.

Having a small get-together... Need a playlist of songs for ambiance?

I'm having a group of friends over for lunch. What are some songs I can play in the background so there isn't silence, but that isn't really distracting during conversation. Thanks! :o)

So i know im really funny?

everyday i live for making people laugh, but theres one other guy thatt is also pretty funny. problem is hes a pecker. when i tell a joke to a friend normally they'll laugh like it was the funniest thing theyve ever heard, but when he comes around and i tell a joke. all he has to do is make a straight face+awkward silence and say that wasnt funny=no1 laughs, i have classes with him all the time considering im from a small school and i cant go through every class period with the option of shutting up + no social life or awkward silence

What do you wear to life saving classes?

I'm 14 and I'm going to life saving classes soon and I was wondering do you wear Speedos or Trunks to the classes?

Jockstraps is there an age to start and stop?

Since I was 13 I've worn jock straps I do a lot of sport I have all kinds of jockstraps and colours. I'm curious is there an age to stop? I don't care about what people think when they see me in one like if my bum shows or my package at the gym with my mates we shower naked anyways. I have been teased before but by none jock wearers and my girl friend finds them cute but I'm 18 I don't wanna be cute anymore its bad enough Not having pubes or a massive **** I just want to be considered a man . Also this whole thing about them being gay is it? like showing your bum in the locker rooms its not like I parade myself in one saying look at me. (I do think I look good in one tho at home) Is there something else out there I can wear that gives great support with out irritation or not to revealing (not to bothered about revealing team mates seen it all before I'm comfortable) considering I wrestle and swim as well yes this means I wear speedos as well are they bit gay? I've tried compression shorts they're personal no good for me. (i have a big bum). Lastly can jock straps prevent genital growth

I want to know if this girl at work likes me. i like her but i don't know if she is being friendly?

I work at an ice cream store in and I was the one that trained her it was just me and her working that day and we got talking about a lot of things like our favourite music which we both have in common and then we joked around a bit and that’s when I found out she had a boyfriend. She wanted to check out my i pod and was surprised at all the good songs I listened to like from the Beatles then she starting saying that yah i was looking through my boyfriends most played songs and a few of them were miley cyrus i think he is gay and we had a few laughs. then we talked about trips we had recently been on and she told me she had went to California as a birthday gift from her dad last winter and then things got personal when she talked about when her parents got divorced so i sort of changed the subject and told some stories I wasn't trying to be funny but she would laugh and smile anyways and then it got busy so we didn’t talk much just exchange short comments and smiles and awkward silence that was broken by a joke from her and occasionally me. The day was made even better when we were closing down and she said thank you for today. I have trained a few girls one being her cousin and not once has anyone said that. Now whenever she sees me even when she is with friends or her boyfriend she comes over and says hello and asks how I am doing. Is she just being polite and friendly or is she showing she likes me? Oh one time she showed up to work when she wasn’t scheduled to ask me a few questions about work but she was supposed to come when the weather was good and it was busy so i could give her examples but it was rainy and miserable and she still showed up and a hilarious thing happened i slipped in the mud and was covered and she saw i cut my thumb and few other things and she offered to work that day but i told her i was fine but i kind of regret saying so but that day led to some funny stories in the workplace

I've never been to disneyland or disneyworld!?

I know, it's appalling that I am a sixteen year old and never been to either. It's quite sad really. All of my family has gone except for me, since I was born later. I feel I haven't completed my childhood, and I know I'm not going anytime soon. Anyone else who has never been to either? :(

Monday, August 8, 2011

Girls please help, erection embarrassment?

When I first started reading this question, I thought that you were really young (around 14 or 15), so I was able to understand your embarrassment. But you're in college; no I don't blame you for being a little embarrassed but honestly I wouldn't worry about it. I am a female in college and although it might be a little unusual to see a guy with a ***** at a college party, I would secretly be flattered, and if I were already attracted to you, I'd also be a little turned on. Basically, don't be scared to see your female friends. I will be honest and say yes, they 100% talked about it to each other but 1) they will get over it and 2) they probably talked about it because they were flattered/liked it/etc. Don't worry.

Why doesn't my dad alow me to swim in my briefs?

I went to go swim in my pool really quick because we had to leave for a BBQ soon. So I went inside stripped down to my briefs and grabbed a towel. As I went to go outside my dad stopped me and said " you are NOT going outside like that!" ..... Why not why wouldn't he let me. In my oppinion they are no different than speedos

How crazy do you think this coincidence is?

In "The Simpsons", Season 11, episode 15, which aired on February 20, 2000, Mr. Burns says to Bart, thinking that he's Homer, "Simpson! I've just reviewed your tenure performance record, and it's appalling." Bart then says, "But I'm not Homer Simpson,", to which Burns replies,"I think I know who Homer Simpson is.In ten short years, you've caused 17 meltdowns. One is to many." Bart interrupts and says, "Yeah, but-" and Mr. Burns interrupts and says, "...you sold weapons grade plutonium to th Iraqis...with no mark-up!" Of course, it was a joke about the whole "weapons of mass destruction in the Middle East" theory and about Mr. Burns' degree of evility, but they had no idea that 9/11 would happen or that the Iraqis would be suspected culprits (of course, Iraq was not linked to it.) Please don't think that I'm a racist or Islamaphobic because of this question. I have always believed that most Iraqis and Muslims are good people (like thos of any other race or religion) and they all have the capacity to be good people, just like anyone else.

I need guy help !? -__-?

Just for the record im 15(: so me and this guy have been talking since december 7, andby may 5th itold him ifalling to hard for him and if he hasnt found the courage to ask me out yet, then idk wat to tell you. . . soo were do we stand ? and that was that, then we started going out on May 13th <3 . haha iprayed so much for this guy to stay in my life and evrything was so perfect! he wanted to do all these things but i told him that id like to take things slow, and yea . all we ever did was kiss wen we first see eachother and before we leave eachother. he would walk me to volleyball practice id walk him to football, but we just got so busy and igot sick of the stupid girls trying to talk to him and everybody at school couldnt accept me and him going out so their was a lot of "He say She say" stuff talking about he doesnt like me nomre "/ but anyways he broke up with me like 3weeks later. he said maybe we should be just friends cause this relationship isnt going anywhere and ill always be here for you and ihope we can still be friends. soo at school its awkward cause my friends are his friends but,ipay him no attention. soo its like a month later and we start texting again hi how r u ? how you been ? type of stuff . then last week i end up going to his house with my friend and were playing aaround, resseling, play fighting, him going through my phone ect. we go outside and hes all up on me wanting me to sit on his lap and all this lubby dubby stuff. but iwasnt falling for him, istill like him but not like i did but iwas confused because hes dun told everybody he doesnt like me nomre? so me and my friend and her boo go back to his house in the morning and their having sex while me n him are in the other room just looking at eachother in a awkward silence and then he tells me to turn off the lights? isaid No` and he asks why and were talkin and im telling him this is not how iwant to Loose my virginity, at my ex boyfriends house over the summer> no iwant it to be speacial and You dont deserve it! so iguess were playing around on his bed and hes just all up on me but nnothing happens aand then wen we leave my friend said that they were talking about me n him and he said that he Loves me?now im double confused. . . and 2 days later he messeges me on facebook saying iThought i knew you but iguess i dont, quit acting like you dont know me and hit me up sometime! and i go off on him sayng wtf iText you all the time your replys are just alwaays yea... ok.... yup ? Like im not going to strive for a decent conversation with you? then last night he asked me who was i with after practice ? and hes asked me abt this girl before and its my cousin. but iwas just like why ? (im a very jealous person) and hes like why are you trying so hard to not tell me? isaid im not? ijust want to know why ? and hes like haha ok watever iguess, why does it even matter we dont go out so why r you trippin ? that just really hurt my feelings. like that was so rude but yea` hes always putting me through this one second he doesnt like me But he claims he loves me. PLEAAAAASE ! help me -__- What do i do ?

The straight story about guys who wear speedo swim briefs for fun. What do you think?

I've seen lots of straight guys wear speedos and tiny swimsuit briefs at beaches and waterparks all over the U.S. My only recommendation is that unless you're young, have no body hair, an awesome tan, and a near perfectly fit body, you might want to stay away from speedos. Unless you look like that, a speedo will make you look silly and unattractive. Young, thin, tanned, smooth, athletic guys in speedos are just downright stunning and will turn heads where ever they go. Unfortunately 99% of guys don't look like that. It's the select few of hairy pale out-of-shape guys that wear speedos that give them a bad name. Straight guys with good looking bodies that are too chicken to wear speedos usually have insecurities about their sexuality and are too concerned about what others think.

What do girls find so attractive about boardshorts?

I don't like them because i don't want to see your junk bulges in speedo bottoms, i don't care if your junk if jumping around as long as I don't see it. I, myself see the speedo bottoms more feminine and the board shorts masculine. And more females like it because it's more in style. This may not be the case but it's just how I see it. Also there are girls who like to wear boardshorts.

Do you like the beginning of my story?

You did a good job on characterization and bringing the feelings of the characters to the readers, but I am not inclined to read any longer. The baby's dead, then what happens? I feel bad for the characters, which is good, but I don't know why I should keep reading, you need to add a bit of suspense to keep the readers interested.

Should i tell his parents?

Me and my neighbors 17 year old son work on my drag car often and one day he was showin me pics of a brand new Mv engine and he mistakingly went by a pic of a naked girl (me being a man) I asked him who was that? And he replied back "my niece" and it just got awkward from their I just left it alone and he knew I thought it was really weird. After about a minute of silence he says "where really close" the girl was fully naked in the pic she couldn't have been any older than 14-16 I judge the age based on his only sisters age which she is 31. She I tell his mom?? I don't want to look like the perve here. This happen a few hours ago

Differences mediterannean girls vs. british girls?

Upon visiting areas in the mediterrean and britain i am really appalled in the differences of how women present themselves.... in the mediterranean countries women were quite petite/short, beautiful, and really well dressed and put together....they dressed in very very classy clothing and always had their hair done... however, when visiting the british countries i noticed quite the opposite.... many british girls presented themselves as plain SLOBS!!!! clothing was very sloppy... and manners were terrible.... it seemed that all the british girls wanted to do was drink and belch all day.... and their housekeeping was atrocious compared to the mediterraneans.... they were just utter pigs and burped and farted like animals.... the mediterraneans barely drank, and kept gorgeous looking homes that sparkled.... they were just so much more lady like than those pigs.... has anyone elese noticed these differences ?

Is it ok for tennagers to wear speedos?

Im 17 and quite enjoy wearing speedos. I dont like to wear them infront of people who I know but just prefer them when I am swimming (I swim with the public 10 hours a week to keep fit). I normally wear the 5cm plain black briefs with a black cap. Should I stop wearing them or continue to wear them?

Needs to be more guys on tv in crotch tight speedos?

Ok so there are many woman that are on tv wearing tight mini's, bikinis and etc for guys to gawk at or what ever, but what about having more guys(cute guys) on tv half naked with stuff hanging out? Then everyone can feel equally awkward or excited.

Is this an okay short story? its for my coursework - original writing?

Okay umm wow. I usually don't care how long questions are but this time I gotta say way too long. But read quite a bit of it. From what I read it was extraordinary writing.

How should I train for a half-marathon?

My stamina is currently appalling and i'm running a half marathon late October this year. I would appreciate any training plans people have used or can suggest? Thanks in advance!!

Kids threw a rock through my window -- What can I do legally to fight back?

Report him to the police, and sue his parents for replacement damages. Taking the law into your own hands is going to bite you on the butt.

So i'm currently in a Landlord /Tenant suit with me being the Tenant that is very close to a settlement as we?

speak. This case has gotten so out of hand it is scheduled for a Jury Trial on July 21,2011.. Anyway as i stated the negotiating has come very close to being settled but now, I recently just got word from my neighbors that the Landlord has been calling them and slamming my name and business with the information regarding court and other personal business to them and calling me all kinds of names and also accusing me of things that never happened.. My neighbors said they were appalled and couldn't believe the L.L. did such a thing, so i was just wondering if there is anything i can legally do, My neighbors said they will absolutely come to court to testify if needed.. Please help.

Do you go for walks with your kid(s)?

When my daughter was 2 she could walk for an hour but not in the direction I needed her to. When we walked in the forest I would just let her go and follow her but when we needed to walk an hour to my mother's house once a week I needed the stroller. We would just not have got there. I still used to take the stroller when we went to the forest - kids of that age can get very tired very quickly and need to sleep. I got one that weighed 7lbs so I could easily sling it over my shoulder. I kept her stroller until she was three because we have no car and its not unusual for me to walk 8 miles to a set destination. When a child gets tired and refuses to move there is very little you can do when they are two except carry them and they can be quite heavy then. My daughter is now 7 and will walk miles and miles to somewhere fun and then give me grief all the way back. However she is now old for me to tell her to do as she is told and stop whining.

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Wearing speedos in a public place?

Here in the US, speedo's aren't popular and are considered too skimpy for other than for a swim meet. But by any ordinance I've seen, a speedo doesn't cross the line (and believe me, some of the ordinances are extremely detailed). Even so, wearing less than people around you consider appropriate, whether it be a speedo in the park, or a bigger swimsuit in the shopping mall, they aren't going to like it. You could put up with offending them, but you're better off trying to find a secluded place, improving the privacy of your back yard, or making the journey to a nude beach or nudist resort.

Is there a degree for makeup artistry?

My parents are appalled by me wanting to be a makeup artist. So i wanted to know if there was a degree for this...

Is it normal for a boyfriend to keep pictures of women doing his fetish?

His fetish is speedos and he has pics of a lot of women doing poses. I wear a a speedo for him and o. Don't see why he's still looking at them.

Meddling / Controlling Mother-In-Law?

I know what you mean. It's tough, ain't it? My mom always tries to get in the way of my relationship with my fiance. She purposely does manipulative things & lies to get me to hate him. Not working, mom stay out. I would have a big talk with your husband about this. It really messes up things. And it causes confusions and misunderstandings. It's quite overbearing. Try going out more places with your husband and children and stay as far as possible away from her!!

Breach of Confidentiality At Work UK?

At the end of the month, my line manager sends a spreadsheet to each departmental employee which details everybody's worked hours, prior to sending the information to payroll . This month I had a couple of days off as a result of an upset stomach and not only was the fact that I was off sick detailed on the spreadsheet but also the reason why. Reasons for other members of staffs absence were also been detailed on the spreadsheet. Whilst I'm not really THAT worried that my colleagues know that I had a dickie stomach, I'm still pretty appalled that this information was freely provided to other members of staff. I do not work for a small company, in fact I work for probably the largest employer in the UK and therefore this spreadsheet gets sent to fair number of people in the department and I'm pretty incredulous that something like this could happen. I am very concerned that this spreadsheet breaches both my employee and my colleagues rights to confidentiality. I would like your thoughts.

Is this a good song??? Kinda depressing. Dedicated to the girls who had their hearts broken.?

I suppose it's a fine song. You have Talent. But, you can't really ask someone if it's a good song if they haven't heard how it's suppose to sound. Good lyrics though..

Women's Opinions on speedos?

My female friend bought me a speedo for my birthday (as sort of a joke), and she badgered & badgered me to wear it to the beach. I finally caved in, wore it, and I can't tell you how many women looked and/or stared right at it. I also can't tell you how many women giggled or whispered to their girlfriends. What's the deal with women's responses to speedos? Do you secretly like them? If not, what's so funny about them? Aren't women's bikini bottoms the same idea?

My boyfriend and I are awkward when it comes to fooling around?

Whenever my boyfriend and I want to fool around we get really awkward and indecisive about what we should do so we just sit there in silence. I tried to give him a handjob once, but it was awkward so we stopped. Any advice?

Whats you opinion on the Road Conditions in Chicago?

its appalling... horrible.. disgusting. whats happening to the good old Illinois i knew back in the day... too much traffic now.. ughh..its going downhill.. its sad u know.. :(

Need help from experieced teachers!!!!!!?

Has he been tested, or is your school just letting him slip through the cracks? It looks as though he likes history and geography and doesn't do well in math or science, in which he could have a disability. He's getting too big to be held back. Some states don't allow kids to be held back more than once in one grade. I'd pass him and get him some testing. If he's doing good work it could also be that he doesn't test well and could be eligible for extra time on exams. It sounds like the school is failing him rather than the other way around.

When you die, how do you want your remains delt with.. is this a proper idea? or is it appalling?

I think that would not work out too well, but sounds pretty sweet...... I myself, would like to have my organs donated to save the lives of those that it could benefit.Then my remains to be ashes and then have a oceanside funeral with my remains thrown out in the ocean. Ashes to ashes and dust to dust. Thats how I have imagined my funeral to be.

Can you guys please listen to some of my raps on youtube and give HONEST and helpful feedback?

You sound a little too simplistic. You should add more similes and metaphors and more introspection to songs like Dead Presidents. You should also try using more flows. And you sound strained, so a little more confidence can help. If you want to be a rapper, you need to kind of have fun with the lyrics and implement wordplay. That makes crowds go loud.

How to have better conversations?

whether its with my closest friend or someone from work, i sometimes have trouble keeping up a conversation. I'm good at talking about what were doing, or something were doing later, or something we did, or about something that's going on in my life or their life, but i have trouble just chatting from topic to topic and just talking mindlessly. i'll find myself talking for just a few moments about one thing, but it usually never flows into anything else. i guess im just not a talkative person, or im just too shy, but its getting to the point where i feel like my friends aren't as close to me as they should be, or i'll find myself having an awkward silence with someone at work. and i feel like it just makes people think im an asshole who doesn't like talking to them, when i really do want to. Does anyone have any suggestions or good websites? Thank you so much.

Suicide silence, 10 point!?

Is there a way to get before the July 12 called "the black crow" of suicide silence? Also, what is their last work issued? 10 points!

When should a child know how to use a knife?

I was watching Nanny 911, and the nanny was absolutely appalled that the six year old wasn't allowed to use a knife are therefor did not know how to use it. What do you think?

Would you blame President Obama if he didn't want to be re elected?

The way he has been treated by Americans has been appalling.All around the world he gets love and respect for his efforts but the level of division right here at home is unreal.So i wouldn't blame him.But he wont dare bow out because he cares much too much about the state of grace.When his term is up he will write and do all kinds of things.Much of which will blow a lot of minds.And in the event the right takes over.All the ones that so violently opposed him will see how wrong they were.Look at what has happened as a result of the 2010 elections.They feel betrayed by the right.We tried to tell them but got cursed like devils on fire.

One night at a college I sat in silence and was "still" attmepting to hear Gods voice?

Meditating on God, For a while I sat there in silence, then I went into this trance like state and something Literally pulled me out of Life and it was like I was Dead... like I didn't exist, I was completly satisfied, all my needs were met I felt full and it was complete peace.. it was silent too, I couldn't feel my body at all, I was in darkness and something held me closly, it was cold outside but I was comfertably warm... it only lasted for less then a second it seemed but it felt like eternity.. Was this God holding me?

This country is ruined...?

You have a lot to say considering your only 15, you should become a politician when your older. For now my friend just enjoy yourself, get laid, smoke weed & peace!

I'm going to Stuyvesant and I have a few questions...?

I heard there was a swimming test. If you pass it, you won't have to take swim gym? I can only freestyle and backstroke, I can't do anything fancy like dolphin. What are the requirements? Are speedos required, or can I wear swimming trunks?

Ladies' opinions on speedos?

My female friend bought me a speedo for my birthday (as sort of a joke), and she badgered & badgered me to wear it to the beach. I finally caved in, wore it, and I can't tell you how many women looked and/or stared right at it. I also can't tell you how many women giggled or whispered to their girlfriends. What's the deal with women's responses to speedos? Do you secretly like them? If not, what's so funny about them? Aren't women's bikini bottoms the same idea?

Is This Gay? (Please Help! 5 Points)?

I am a 16 year old boy wrestling fan and i Love the WWE! I always fantasize about the divas and would love to date them and i always get turned on by them. BUT...at the same time i get turned on by some of the male wrestlers like Randy Orton & Mason Ryan, when i stare at their butts and dream of spanking them with their speedos on. I get turned on by the divas more but i still get turned on about just as much with the guys and i dont mind, but am i bisexual ?

I am a competitive swimmer and I was wondering, Speedo or Jammer?

I am a competitive swimmer and I have been wearing a jammer for a while at practices and meets. I recently started wearing a speedo underneath a drag suit at practice and have worn a speedo to some meets. Should I keep wearing the drag suit over a speedo, or take it off and just wear a speedo during practice. And should I wear a Speedo or Jammer for Meets? So in conclusion my question is, do drag suits make you faster and are speedos or jammers better for meets?

I need help ...i just mess up?

ok well me and this guy has been talkin for awhile now ...and i really like him ..like more then friends ...i thought he liked me too ..he sure ask like it ...but at the same time he a really nice guy soo i have no idea soo today i told him that i like him more then a friend ..and that i was wondering if he felt the same way ....but all i got is a very long silence ... and still no answer ... i am startin to think i just messed it all up ... anybody have any ideas on what i should do now !!! please help me ... :(

How far will you go/have you gone on the beach? Nude? Topless? Bikini? Speedos? Swimsuit? Shorts? Sarong?

LOL, I Use To Use A Two Piece Bikini, But Now I Usualy Use A Tankini With A Board Shorts. I Still Look Pretty Good In A Bikini, But They Do Not Make Bikinis Surf Proof, So Sometimes, They Get Loose And Come Off, That Is Why I Use Tankinis With A Board Shorts, No Matter What Happens, You`ll Never Come Up Topless. I Do Not Think I Would Be Comfortable Using Anything Less Than That! =P

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Chris Brown is STILL famous? Why are ppl still supporting him?

I agree. Its a sad reflection of what modern society values. I cant even look at him after hearing about his abusive tendancies.

ATHEISTS: Why Do You Only Attack Christians On Here...?

atheists are under the control of satan so what do you expect, they are evil. the demons in them make them say these horrible things

More appalling hospital 'care' how long before the medical secret society is exposed?

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Would It Be Best For Me If I Was Gay?

I'm bisexual and my ex boyfriend got me wearing things such as thongs, tight clothing speedos, a bit of makeup like eyeliner and a few other things. I really like having it on but any girlfriend that i had said that they hated it and broke up with me because of it. I've found that guys like that sort of thing so i was thinking if i should stop dating girls and just be with guys.

Wave pad sound editor help please?

i was just editing out swearing out of a song, but when i upload the updated file into itunes and put it on my ipod, parts of the song that should just be normal are silenced!!! i don't get it, what's going on?? i don't know how to fix it.

My short term memory is really bad?

Yes, it could be due to what you said. I would recommend to do yoga, which will help you focus and increase your concentration/memory power.

Why do Speedos always make a guy's thing look so small?

I really don't understand why. I bought them for swimming and for some reason it almost looks as if I have nothing there. It somehow pushes it in so much. Usually I don't look like that when I have underwear on, but with Speedos I do. Is that a common problem or is it just the brand Speedo and Nike?

More appalling hospital 'care' how long before the medical secret society is exposed?

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Is there any WAY to keep your car from RUSTING?

Keep it in a cement floored heated garage when its snowing. No car is gonna last more than 20 years if you don't take car of it and most people don't.

Can guys wear speedos to the beach?

If you have abbs, a good tan, and aren't ugly. Than yes. I went to mexico and a ton a of guy were wearing speedos. it worked for a lot of them except the old dudes, fat dudes, and this one dude that stuck a wash clothe in the front of his speedo. that was just wronggggg, so I recomend not doing that.

Is my girl playing games or what?

Listen, the girl obviously is making this up. Not many girls would talk about rape and certainly not tell 7 different stories. I think she may love you if she has stuck to you but she doesn't want to admit her mistake and loose you. I guess it's forgive and forget or split up.

Why do people think cheerleading isn't a sport?

It really gets under my skin when people say that cheerleaders are athletes and what they do is easy. CORRECTION: cheerleading is NOT easy. Yeah, its so easy to make fun of cheerleaders after silly movies like bring it on and fired up because of all the cheer drama that goes on in those movies but it real life, 99% of that does not happen. As cheerleaders we are nice to our teammates AND the teams we compete against. we aren' all catty b*tches that get what they want and if they don't whine about it. I will be fair though, yes, game cheerleading is not a sport. I think of it more as a people being super fans, but once you throw in the element of stunting and tumbling in though it becomes more of an athletic thing. I don't understand how people think that tumbling and stunting are easy! Girls, and sometimes guys, are being tossed at least 5 feet in the air over your heads and are expected to hit difficulty skills like fulls (where they twist in the air) and toe touches. Scary much am I right? Don't forget tumbling, one little wrong move and your face has a new best friend... the floor and i can say from experience, ouch. Another thing that irritates me is that some people think that to be a cheerleader you need to be skinny, hot, and slutty. WRONG! Most girls lose weight once they join cheer because we work, train, and sweat just as much as any athlete in any sport. I know the cheerleading uniforms also get some people a little flustered saying that it isn't appropriate to wear and such but when you think about it, it isn't as bad as other sports. Swimmers wear bathing suits and speedos for goodness sake! We wear these type of uniforms because they are easy to move in. The less material that is on our body while we are competing makes it easier to not get tangled in when we are tumbling and stunting. We add things like sparkles and sequins to make things look nice however because we still are cheerleaders and we still like to make things look nice. A lot of people tell me cheer isn't a sport because it isn't in the Olympics or on TV. Actually, cheerleading is on TV around April when they show the Cheerleading Worlds on ESPN every year. That is where the best allstar teams around the world compete to win and show the world what they got! Everyone says that football is a sport correct? But from what i recall... football isn't in the Olympics either, so i guess that excuse is out as well. So far I have not heard one thing that would direct cheerleading into an un-athletic or non-sport category. Leave a comment saying why you don't believe cheer is a sport or help defend cheerleaders case on why they ARE athletes!

Am I stupid when everyone likes the man I thought was a total jerk?

You should have asked for a ride with them or something. Or your friend should have said " Could you give her a ride home also?"

Why do some Canadians complain about how violent the U.S. is when they burn down a city over a hockey game?

What I observed in Vancouver last night was appalling. You Canadians should be ashamed of yourselves for not knowing how to lose with class. Of course I am not speaking about you good Canadian that had nothing to do with last night's riot.

How should i dress when i go swimming?

I wear speedos, they are much more comfortable than wet board shorts, or I may wear a square cut suit. There are also some decent shorts you can wear that do not go down to your knees that are good for swimming.

Can someone help me figure out wtf happened?

So when I began middle school there was a cute boy named Noah that rode my bus every day. He was in a grade above me and over time we became great friends. When I hit 7th grade (he was in 8th) and we really liked each other. He sat on the bus with me, waited by my locker after school, said hi and talked to me whenever he could... then Noah finally asked if I would be his girlfriend. I said no though, that I only wanted to be friends (cause my dad's protective and won't let me date) . Even after that we still talked and stuff... then everything just stopped. Noah ignored me completely for months. I attempted to get him to tell me WHY? Why was he ignoring me? Over Facebook one day he told me he was sorry to have done me that way, I said it was okay, but it really left me scarred, Especially when I had my drunk mother to deal with (he knew this) . Noah's wierd actions cause me to spiral deeper into depression, until finally, after trying to form some sort of conversation and failing, I agreed to silence. After a few months, my mom and I were reunited and everything was okay. Except for 'him'. To clean up some unwanted dust, I attended his graduation from the middle school and congragulated him. As soon as he saw me he frowned, though he just responded "Hm, thanks." in a dull, uncaring voice. WTF HAPPENED? After two years of being best friends, Noah left me in the dust at the hardest time in my life.

Penis keeps moving in speedo!? (Help)?

I don't think there is much you can do about. When you move, your penis will to. Try not to think about it, eventually it will not bother you anymore. Its just natural movement, nobody is looking to see where its at, anyhow.

What do you think when you see guys in speedos or in leggings?

i can't keep a straight face with both of them. I mean if the guy's good looking then i don't really care, but if the guys old and saggy, then it's kind of funny. lol. And leggings are hilarious on guys. One time me and my friend dressed her brother in leggings (he was willing to do it on his own will lol). And he started dancing like a male stripper. i was on the floor dieing of laughter. Still thinking about it makes me laugh.

How can I neutralize the chlorine left on my swimsuit?

I swim at a pool I don't own that must use a lot of chlorine. Even after thoroughly rinsing my trunks, they smell like bleach for days. This bleaches them out and wears them out quickly. Is there a safe way to neutralize the chlorine to help my speedos last longer?

What are your thoughts on if gays/lesbians/bisexuals go to hell when they pass away?

Pfft. There is nothing wrong with being gay. Until theists can actually prove this "hell" thingy actually exists, they can shut up about gay people going there when they die.

(Women only) Are guys wearing Speedos sexy or is it too much information?

LOL, I would have to say that I agree with Fereshte; however, I really cannot say. I am from Hawaii and I have not seen guys using "speedos" at all, most guys use board shorts, even those that just tan in the sun.... I do not think guys are into speedos, at least not now....... =P

What would lebians feel when seeing a fit guy in speedos at the beach?

@drodtci, men in speedos always attract the stupid girls that no one wants. You sound like you watch too much tv. They'd probably feel annoyed by him like everyone else on the beach. I've also never seen an actual good looking guy in a speedo. I'd most likely want him to get the f*ck out of my view. Since I notice men in speedos are annoying as hell and never get out of the way. They're just desperate wanting someone to check them out. I see them how they are, pathetic.

What is the law in Texas for Sexual assault of a child?

I am so confused, and very appalled. I was looking at The Public Sex Offender Registration list online in the area where I live. (In Texas) I was shocked to see the time served for some of these offenders. Example: One male 25 yo was charged with Aggravated sexual assault of a 5 year old female victim and only served 48 months! Another charged with indecency with a child (sexual contact) only served 6 years. I don't understand, what happened to the 2007 Texas Legislature Handling of Sex Offenders? Isn't it said that Pedophiles can never be cured? Why are they walking free in our towns around our children after serving very little time in prison? Has another law been passed since then? What can the public to change this?

Are swim jammers revealing and disliked by as many people as speedos?

Who cares what others think, if you like speedos or jammers, wear them. I wear speedos whenever I swim, beach or pool.

Friday, August 5, 2011

Should any image of God be made?

I am appalled at the image of God in the Sistine chapel and pictures of a white jesus. This to me is racism and white supremecy being done in a spiritual way. We are force to believe that god and jesus are white men. I am sorry, this is just not right! Do anyone agree with me?! I am not being racist, I think this is really a serious matter, and don't tell me if makes no difference, that only means you are afraid of being racist by saying anything, It DOES make a difference to black and brown people who have no images of a black or brown god, not that there should be any. The image in the Sistine Chapel should be removed.

Having a small get-together... Need a playlist of songs for ambiance?

I'm having a group of friends over for lunch. What are some songs I can play in the background so there isn't silence, but that isn't really distracting during conversation. Thanks! :o)

How do I make my parents understand and am I weird for it?

It very much could be depression, and Social Anxiety, ur antisocial, honestly I'd ask ur mom to take u to a doctor, just to be safe, to make sure it doesn't get worse or anything, it'll be okay, n no idt ur weird<3

I was accused of Shoplifting?

This almost exact same thing happened to my mother back in November at a grocery store. She was livid, to say the least. She was also approached and told she could not come back to the store. She is a long, long time patron of the store and was furious about being accused of doing something she has never done in her life. She actually went over the manager's head to the store manager and then all the way to the corporate office demanding their "proof." Basically, there was none and they ATE CROW like crazy. They ended up offering her "anything she wanted" as an apology. They sent lunch to the business she owns and fed all of her co-workers and then gave her a case of the best wines they carried. People will mess with you because they think they can get away with it. Be polite when you contact the store manager, but be forceful as well and explain how appalled you were at the kind of treatment. It may be a good idea to write down some of your main points before hand. Sorry that happened to you! :(

What are the mechanisms required for time travel?

I've just made a lot of things, i'd like to do again differently. Even thought it is impossible, I have all the time in the word and would like to pursue a quest for time travel. So just to get some external ideas, what do you think are the necessary factors/variable have been said to be need in order to control and/or travel in time? Please humour me if you're appalled in some sort.

How do i turn from chasing a girl, to have her chase me?

ignore her ---- it seems the ladies play the "hard to get" game --- so play the game and both will lose ---- if she is not interested then move on you cant get it back and maybe she was just playing as well ---- i will chase but only when i know she is interested if she has lost it then its not worth it no matter how much you love her

Is it wrong to adjust my penis?

I wear some square_cut speedos when swimming.When out from the pool, the swimsuit is so tightly wrapped around me that almost everything is visible.So,i adjust my penis, and i let some air get in,in order to make things less uncomfortable.Problem is that when i do so,i can see girls staring at me.The other time,one of them came to me and told it's not polite to touch my penis.Is she correct?What else can i do?Don't suggest that i change my swimsuit, i like it very much.

What do you think John Cena is on?

So I had no idea who this guy was but I was flipping thru channels and I saw this beastly guy getting in the ring, first thought that crossed my mind "what the hell? what is that guy on?" then I saw it was the WWE so I switched the channel because really who wants to see a bunch of grown man in speedos dance around the ring without really hurting each other and knowing the fight is completely staged? but i digress. Sylvester Stallone has admitted to the use of HGH and on occasion has even defended it, I was wondering if this guy has ever admitted to taking something because that is clearly not natural.

Looking for opinions on Offensive vs. Humorous?

It really depends on the joke.. And the show. I usually dont find Family Guy jokes on certain groups to be funny, but I do however find shows like The Boondocks, etc, to be funny..

Comment on my poem tell me what you think?

Damn that was great !! i write a lot of poems like that but never this good hope to see more of your poems and maybe just maybe you should like get all your poems together into a book for everyone to read and enjoy. you have a true talent =)

Women's Opinions on speedos?

My female friend bought me a speedo for my birthday (as sort of a joke), and she badgered & badgered me to wear it to the beach. I finally caved in, wore it, and I can't tell you how many women looked and/or stared right at it. I also can't tell you how many women giggled or whispered to their girlfriends. What's the deal with women's responses to speedos? Do you secretly like them? If not, what's so funny about them? Aren't women's bikini bottoms the same idea?

Discovered I have a 4 year old daughter who was abused?

Right now Im 25 and a few years ago I was, to say the least, out of control. I was into drugs and I had a lot of flings with different women. In the last 3 years Ive been completely clean and I got my life back in order. However a few months ago one of my exes showed up at my place. She had a little 4 year old girl and she said she was mine. I could tell that she was still pretty messed up and I didn’t believe her that the kid was mine, but at the same time I felt really bad for the little girl and tried to get her and her mom to come inside. I was going to call the police because the little girl didn’t look like she was being taken care of and her mom was definitely on something when she showed up. I went to go get the little girl some water and when I came back the mom was gone and she had left her little girl. I called the police but I went to the police station with the little girl because they wanted to take my statement . I asked about the girl and started to wonder if she really was mine. We took a dna test and it turned out she’s my daughter. I feel so guilty that I didn’t know about this sooner. Her name is Maya and she’s so sweet even though she’s been through a lot of bad things. I recently won custody of her and now she lives with me. I tried to get her mom help but shes disappeared and no one has heard from her in months. Even though Maya is sweat and I love her very much I can tell that she’s very scared by all of this. She seems to trust me but she’s very nervous around people. She has scars on her back and im so appalled that no one took her away from her mother sooner and that no one realized that she was being abused. At the same fault I know that its my fault she was even in that situation to begin with and I hate myself for that. I want her to feel comfortable and happy and she is at times but she just gets so scared so easily. What can I do to help her adjust to all that is happening easier?

What bands/singers would I like?

You might like Deicide. I compare them to Blessthefall a lot. Check out their song Holy Hell. Thats my favorite one.

Is this bathing suit hot, or not?

well i am not an adult women but I wouldn't buy or wear them unless you want to get laughed at but if you like them have at it

While watching Don Lemon enterviewing Pawlenty on Cnn about his take on a gays it appalled me.?

How could he stand there and talk to someone that just came out of closet last week and not offend a gay person.This sickens me as I love everyone I am no one to judge but he asked him if he had gay friends, black friends .What the hell does that have to do with being a good presidentail canididate for president.

Curious for your opinions if I'm Bi or straight?

First of all, not all girls are like that. Don't be afraid to fall in love! I fell in love countless of times, it ended up badly in some cases, but now I'm really happy with my girlfriend and we've been dating for more than 2 months. The thing is, you have to find out if you find guys attractive, if you do find them cute, then you're probably bi, otherwise, if you're only interested in how it would be to be with a guy, you might be bi-curious. Or you're just straight and you just have some kind of guy-fetish, which is also possible, I know someone who likes bondage and rape porn, but he doesn't have any desires to go through that. Go out, or search for guys, look at pictures, and try to imagine yourself with a guy. Is it impossible? Then you're probably straight. If it is possible, then either bi or bi-curious, you should try finding that out yourself, since that's highly personal. Lots of luck!

Can guys wear speedos to the beach?

cosidering that the beach is a family place and you probably wouldn't want to disturb kids for life... I'd say stick to trunks!

Atheists, is this opinion typical among you? what is your response to it?

'the hateful things said about believers by Richard Dawkins' -funny how you can't give us ONE example!

Looking for new bands to listen to?

I listen to pretty much everything hardcore, punk, and metal, from Veara to A Day to Remember to Parkway Drive to Suicide Silence to MXPX to Four Year Strong to Underoath to Mastodon to Enter Shikari to Abandon All Ships to We Came as Romans. I already listen to a LOT of bands but tell me any band I don't know/listen to and i'll look them up

When wearing skin tight jeans and your penis shows is that just vulgar?

girls what do you think when you see a guy in skinny jeans and you can see his penis running down his leg do you think that is just vulgar? I just made this profile to ask this question because people know me on my other one, any way people tell me that I look good in skinny jeans but I'm a "shower" not a "grower" my flaccid ls about as long as my penis is erect which is a bit over 6 inches any way in skinny jeans I feel like the thing running down the side of my leg is just vulgar and inappropriate. when I wear jeans that tight there is no room for it to fold up under my balls or go behind me I could but that would hurt. Should I wear my penis up like people do when wearing speedos to keep it from being less noticeable or would people look at me and wonder where my bulge is if I do that. I know I could just save my self all this trouble by just not wearing the jeans but this girl I like told me she liked them on me and that's cool when I'm with her but it's kinda awkward when I'm just walking around the store or something with them I feel like people think I'm a perv or something.

Going clubbing for the first time help?

Dude, don't go. If you feel that she was inviting you to be nice, politely tell them you have other plans. If you go and the invitation wasn't genuine, you will probably feel uncomfortable, there will be a lot of eye rolling, silence, etc. Why spend your night feeling awkward? You must have other friends.

How long does it take a woman to recover from something as traumatizing as almost being raped?

I was at hawaii and it was the most awful vacation ever. It all happened so quickly. I remember having an excellent time to begin with. I was learning how to surf until a wave crashed onto me and knocked me into my surf board. I don't know how long I was unconscious but I woke up to a perverted man taking advantage of me, attempting to force his mouth onto me. I noticed he was also pressing and thrusting against my breasts. It was very scary and I often wonder had I not woke up when I did how far he would have went to violate me. I was very fearful, there were so many dangerous men surrounding me and they were all standing there wearing shorts and speedos, dressed to rape, waiting as if they were taking turns to violate me. I panicked, screamed for dear life, and did what any woman would do in a situation where she is surrounded by potential rapists, defend myself by kicking as many men in the testicles as possible. I managed to escape that tragic event and pack my bags to go home where I would be safe from dangerous men. For a moment, I thought I died and went to hell, It was by far the most dangerous vacation I have ever had and I'm not sure If I will recover from this traumatizing event in my life.

Some guy sent me a photo of himself with an erection, can he get in trouble?

This guy i know admitted to liking me, but he knows i have a fiance and 2 kids. I have no interest in him at all. We are only friends, well i wake up this morning to find a picture sent to me on Facebook of him with an erection. I am completely disgusted and appalled. Can I report him for anything such as sexual harassment? I scared he is getting obsessed and will go to any length to make me his

Where can i watch the full movie Detective Conan moive 15 Quarter of Silence?

I want to see this movie so bad but every where i look they only have the trailer. I heard that this movie came out april 5th 2011 and i've been looking every where for it. i know the movie isn't english dubbed but is there a site where i can watch it english sub? Also if there is a site where i can watch this movie pleace list it below! lastly if the full movie is avalible to watch on an online site pleace make sure that its a free site not one of those sites that has a pop up saying you need to download or buy anything first. thanks any information is much appreciated:) ive been looking every where for this movie if you can help then you have my graditude